Performance anxiety
worrying before or during intimacy about whether you will perform.
Private Sex Therapy in Orlando & Online Across Florida
Sex Therapy for Performance Anxiety, Confidence & Intimacy
If anxiety, overthinking, past experiences, or learned patterns are affecting your sexual confidence or intimate life, we can help you understand what is driving the problem and choose an appropriate treatment path.
Private, professional, and nonjudgmental care for concerns that can be difficult to talk about.
Start With a Consultation
A private 15-minute call to understand what is happening and what may help.
When the Pattern Starts Taking Over
Intimacy can become difficult when your attention shifts from connection to performance.
One difficult experience can quickly become a pattern of anticipation, self-monitoring, pressure, avoidance, or shame. The harder you try to force a response, the more attention you place on whether it is happening.
Erectile difficulties
losing or struggling to maintain an erection when anxiety or pressure is involved.
Ejaculation concerns
finishing sooner or later than you want and becoming increasingly focused on timing.
Low desire
feeling disconnected from sexual interest or struggling to access desire.
Orgasm difficulties
difficulty reaching orgasm despite wanting to and feeling physically or emotionally engaged.
Intimacy anxiety
feeling tense, avoidant, exposed, or disconnected when closeness increases.
Sexual shame
guilt, embarrassment, negative beliefs, or fear of judgment around sexuality.
Compulsive patterns
pornography or sexual behaviors that feel difficult to control or are affecting intimacy.
How it tends to show up
It rarely stays in the bedroom.
These concerns have a way of spreading into confidence, mood, and relationships. You might notice:
Request a ConsultationAnticipatory anxiety
Dread or "watching yourself" before or during intimacy, instead of being present.
Avoidance
Sidestepping sex or closeness to avoid the anxiety which quietly widens the gap.
Lost confidence
A hit to self-esteem that spills into the rest of your life and mood.
Relationship strain
Tension, distance, secrecy, or conflict with a partner who doesn't know how to help.
Our approach
Two treatment options. One individualized plan.
Recommended. Most comprehensive
Cognitive Behavioral Hypnotherapy (CBHT)
CBHT is our primary private-pay treatment for many sexual performance, confidence, intimacy, and behavioral concerns. It combines cognitive-behavioral therapy with clinical hypnosis so treatment can work with thoughts, emotions, automatic patterns, and behaviors together.
Private-Pay Treatment
Alternative option
EMDR Therapy
Best when trauma or distressing memories are contributing to the concern. EMDR helps the mind reprocess those experiences so they stop driving how you feel and respond today.
May be covered by insurance when clinically appropriate
You do not need to figure out the treatment on your own.
You do not need to decide whether you need CBHT, EMDR, or another next step before you call. The consultation helps us understand the pattern and recommend the most appropriate treatment.
15-Minute Consultation
Tell us what you are experiencing, what you want to change, and any questions you have. We will determine whether Revibe appears to be an appropriate fit.
Comprehensive Assessment
We look at symptoms, medical considerations, thoughts, emotions, behaviors, relationship factors, past experiences, and the patterns that may be maintaining the concern.
A Treatment Recommendation
Your clinician recommends the approach that best fits what appears to be driving the problem, including CBHT, EMDR when clinically appropriate, or coordination with medical care when needed.
Meet your therapists
Care from Licensed Florida clinicians.
Your sessions are led by licensed, credentialed clinicians trained in hypnotherapy and behavioral change.
Jose De La Cruz
Licensed Clinical Social Worker | Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist | Bilingual Provider — English & Spanish
A Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist who helps clients work through sexual performance anxiety, overthinking, and the confidence and intimacy concerns that ride along with them. His CBHT and hypnotherapy work targets the thoughts and patterns fueling the anxiety, in English or Spanish, always without judgment.
Elizabeth Morgan
Board-Certified Clinical Neuropsychologist | Licensed Psychologist | Hypnotherapist
A board-certified clinical neuropsychologist and licensed psychologist with deep expertise in how thoughts, emotions, and behaviors interact. She uses hypnotherapy and, when trauma or distressing memories are involved, EMDR to shift the emotional and behavioral patterns underlying sexual and intimacy concerns.
Jessica Marengo-Ramos
Psychologist | Hypnotherapist | Bilingual Provider — English & Spanish
A psychologist and hypnotherapist who helps clients rebuild sexual confidence and ease anxiety around intimacy in a compassionate, nonjudgmental space. She draws on hypnotherapy and evidence-based methods and EMDR when past experiences are contributing, with sessions in English and Spanish.
Two ways to work together
Sessions available in person and online.
Meet privately at one of our Central Florida offices or attend secure online sessions when appropriate.
Online Across Florida
Meet by secure video from anywhere in Florida — no commute, same guided experience.
- Comfortable in your own space
- Flexible scheduling
- Just need a quiet room and headphones
In-Person
Prefer to be in the room? Meet us at either of our two Orlando-area locations.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
CBHT combines cognitive-behavioral therapeutic principles with clinical hypnosis. Depending on the client and treatment plan, the work may address thoughts, emotions, behaviors, imagery, learned associations, and automatic responses connected to the concern.
Therapy may help when anxiety, negative expectations, self-monitoring, shame, avoidance, relationship factors, or learned emotional responses are contributing to the problem. Your clinician will assess your individual situation before recommending treatment.
Erectile dysfunction can have physical, psychological, medication-related, or mixed causes. Therapy can address psychological contributors such as performance anxiety, stress, negative expectations, relationship factors, and distressing experiences. It does not replace appropriate medical evaluation.
Ejaculatory concerns can involve anxiety, stress, learned patterns, medications, physical factors, and other variables. Assessment helps determine whether psychological or behavioral treatment may be useful and whether medical evaluation should also be considered.
EMDR may be recommended when trauma or specific distressing memories appear to be a meaningful driver of the current sexual or intimacy concern. The consultation and assessment determine which approach is the better fit.
CBHT is private pay at $250 per session. We will discuss the recommended treatment approach and financial details before you begin.
EMDR may be covered when it is clinically appropriate and the relevant clinician and services meet your plan's requirements. Benefits vary by insurance plan and coverage cannot be guaranteed.
No. Clinical hypnosis is not mind control. You remain aware and able to communicate during the session. Your clinician will explain the process and obtain your participation throughout treatment.
Therapy is private and confidential subject to the usual legal and ethical exceptions that apply to mental-health treatment. Your clinician can explain confidentiality and its limits before treatment.
Revibe Therapy offers online sessions for eligible clients across Florida as well as in-person appointments in Winter Park and Lake Nona / Orlando.
Yes. Hablamos Español.
Find out what is keeping the pattern going.
You do not have to diagnose yourself or choose a treatment before you call. Start with a private conversation, and we will help you determine the most appropriate next step.